Feminine Character Works

I'm divorced. During my divorce I intentionally scrubbed my casual conversation of all personal details about my future ex because if I mentioned his hair color, men with that hair color would act like "I'm in like Flynn!" and men with other hair colors would act like kicked puppies, as if I had just buttonholed them, called them by name and said "Fuck you in particular. I will NEVER date you!" To me it always looked amazingly stupid. As someone once said to me "Why not assume the opposite? She's DIVORCING (guy with that hair color)! She'll never want a man with that hair color AGAIN! She HATES (that hair color)!" After scrubbing my language of ALL personal details about any guy I ever had any romantic connection to no matter how slight, I got more satisfactory results. Men no longer prescreened themselves based on incredibly unimportant details like hair color. They had to really talk to me and get to know me and I was much happier with ho