Unfortunately, my firsthand experience is that most men are misogynistic jackasses who see women as nothing but a piece of ass.
On the rare occasion that some man spends 30 seconds treating me like a professional with a brain, I get excited as all hell.
I think: Maybe I can finally escape this fucking nightmare and stop being dirt poor!!!
Sensing my excitement, he goes "She's clearly SEXUALLY excited! No women EVER are excited to talk to me for reasons I cannot fathom, having no ability at all to see them as people, so I deludedly want to imagine this dumb bitch WANTS ME!!!!!"
And it promptly goes to hell with no hope of being salvaged.
Rinse and repeat. I'm on track to die of poverty.